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trer --> How can we slow down our culture of consumerism? [1 replies]
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looking for $$$$ --> Does anyone know how Third Party Tracers (processors for Mortgage Refunds) are paid? [0 replies]
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Christina W --> I am stuck with a lien on my house that I am not entitled to pay. HELP!!? [4 replies]
Jason B --> My first and second mortgage is more than my house is worth.? [6 replies]
Ja W --> Did you know that you could not post topics questioning Barack Obama on his website? [3 replies]
How do guys really feel about dating moms?
Posted by roving_poet at: 2008-03-16 15:20:41
I'm kind of confused about a situation I'm in with a guy I've gotten close to through a school project over the last month or so, so I thought I'd ask for some second (or third!) opinion. The situation: he's 26 & I'm 30. I'm taller than him & told I'm good looking (I do get asked out alot so there must be at least some truth to it :P). He's pretty average looking (adorable to me of course!), shorter & looks alot younger than his age. We are both in the same degree program & have a lot in common, however the big difference is that I'm a single, divorced mom. I have two kids ages 12 & 10, a mortage, etc. I'm self sufficient & have been for years so I'm hardly looking for a 'daddy' for kids. They have a very involved father & step-mom. My love interest lives with 3 guys & has never been married. I get mixed messages from this guy. I flirt & he flirts back, but when I joke about us going out he seems hesitant & won't answer. I catch him looking at me too. What gives? Does he like me or no The other thing that I forgot to add is that I'm pretty sure he's aware I like himI haven't come right out and said it but I've made it clear enough lol. I don't want to mess up a chance with this guy because I really do like him. What would be the next step with all of this in mind? Do I back of and just treat him like a friend and see if he expresses interest? I know it's alot to put on a guy to date someone with kids but I'm not sure how to reasure him that I'm not looking for a 'baby-daddy' without it being weird. It's not exactly a natural topic of conversation lol. Me: "Btw, PI totally dig you and want to have hot monky sex with you but I don't need you to be a dad to my girls or anything like that' Him: "uuuhhhh"
Posted by Young Money at: 2008-03-16 15:24:48
He likes you but he's hesitant because that's a lot of baggage of for a young bachelor like himself to be picking up